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Holiday Stress in Kids

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The holiday season is often seen as a time of joy, festivities, and family celebrations. But for many kids, these few weeks can bring unexpected challenges. Between changes in routine, travel, social events, and sensory overload, what’s meant to be a cheerful time can sometimes lead to anxiety, overstimulation, or a meltdown. We have some tips to ease the holiday stress and help children adapt and cope with anxiety or difficult emotions. 

One of the challenges that children face during the holidays is the disruption in common routines. Kids thrive on predictability, such as regular bedtimes, meal times, and common daily activities. Yet during the holidays, parties might run late and affect sleep schedules, meals are irregular or bigger than usual, and the day-to-day routine that helps children feel secure can get turned upside down. We recommend maintaining usual sleep and mealtime routines whenever possible, and if there is a disruption, help kids get back on track the following day. Even during busy periods, holding onto at least some structure gives children a sense of safety and helps regulate mood and energy. 

Sensory overload is another common trigger for holiday stress. Holiday environments often bring bright lights, lots of noise, crowded gatherings, strong smells (food, candles, and fireplaces), and a lot of activity. For kids, especially younger children or those who are more sensitive, these changes can quickly become overwhelming. Restless nights, frequent irritability, sudden crying or tantrums, or withdrawal from activities could all be signals that the holiday bustle is too much. Kids may need extra support to help them adjust and recharge. Help your child find a calm and quiet place to retreat to when they’re feeling overwhelmed. It’s also good to discuss what to expect in advance and talk to guests and relatives about any needs your child might have to feel comfortable. 

Travel and visiting family or friends can also add more stress. Long car rides, changes in environment, unfamiliar sleeping arrangements, and busy days can make kids feel disoriented. Keep in mind that it’s ok to be selective about holiday commitments. It’s usually best to choose a few meaningful events rather than trying to do everything. Overloading the calendar can lead to burnout in kids and adults alike. Quality over quantity helps preserve energy and mood for everyone. You’ll also want to share ahead about what events will be like, mention who will be there, how long you’ll stay, and that it’s okay if they don’t stay the full time. Giving kids some sense of control helps reduce anxiety. Food and treats at gatherings can be another challenge. Kids may be tempted to overeat, skip balanced meals, or have disrupted eating routines, all of which can affect mood, energy levels, and even their sense of routine. While it’s normal for kids to enjoy holiday treats, it’s important to look out for overindulgence. Keep meals balanced and encourage your kids to drink plenty of water and maintain physical activity.

Make sure to also build in downtime for your kids. After a big event or a family visit, having the space to rest or do quiet activities like reading, coloring, listening to music, or watching a movie can help kids with overstimulation and prevent meltdowns. Watch out for big feelings and normalize them for your child. If your kid seems anxious, sad, overwhelmed, or unusually moody, don’t dismiss it as “holiday fuss.” Let them know their feelings are valid and that it’s okay to feel tired or overwhelmed. Offer extra emotional support as some kids just need a hug, a quiet room, or a chance to rest. 

Holidays can be fun and festive, but they can also be stressful, especially for children whose world often depends on routine and consistency. With a little planning, compassion, and flexibility, you can help your kids enjoy the season while still feeling safe, calm, and emotionally supported. Sometimes the best holiday gift you can give your children is your attention, presence, and peace. If you have any concerns about how your child is handling the season, whether it’s big emotions, trouble sleeping, or being overwhelmed, please call our office. Our pediatrician is here to support your family and we’re here to help! 

Gratitude and Mental Health: Helping Children Practice Thankfulness

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In our busy lives, it can be easy to overlook the small things, but teaching kids gratitude is more than just good manners. It’s an effective way to support their mental health, build resilience, and help them develop a positive outlook on life. As parents, we can guide them toward noticing, appreciating, and expressing thankfulness in ways that really matter. Daily gratitude practice has been linked with better sleep, fewer aches and pains, and a more positive mindset.

Teaching thankfulness to kids can begin as early as the toddler and preschooler years. During this time, kids are naturally focused on themselves, but with simple guidance, they can start understanding the idea of being grateful. Some concepts to start with include encouraging your child to say “thank you” when someone helps them, telling your child why you are thankful for them (for example, “I appreciate how you helped your sibling tie their shoes”), and sharing aloud what you’re grateful for as a family. Participating in small acts of kindness, like donating toys or helping a neighbor, can help them connect gratitude with empathy and service. Consistency is key. Gratitude is a habit and not a one-time lesson. Reinforcing thankfulness in everyday life helps children internalize that thankfulness is part of how they treat themselves and others.

As kids get older, you’ll want to continue instilling habits that encourage thankfulness. Some ways to do this include: 

  1. Talk about things you’re grateful for each day, even the small things. You might want to consider having a family gratitude jar where you leave a collection of notes, each expressing something you’re thankful for. It’s also helpful to make it a bedtime habit. Before the lights go out, ask your child to name a few things they’re grateful for that day. Even when things are tough, finding something positive helps end the day on a good note and can improve mental health. 
  1. Celebrate kindness by helping others. Involving your kids in volunteer activities, like charity drives and helping a neighbor, helps them feel a sense of purpose and a link between giving and gratitude. It’s also a great way for them to grow their skills.
  2. Model gratitude through behavior and not just words. Thank your child for everyday things like helping or sharing.
  1. Highlight generosity. Notice when others go out of their way to help and point it out to your child to reinforce kindness. You’ll also want to do the same for your kids. Give them credit when you notice them doing an act of kindness. Showing your appreciation will encourage them to do the same.
  1. Make practicing gratitude a fun experience for your children. There are so many ways to practice it, and you can help your child find their own unique way. Whether it’s writing thank you notes and cards, drawing a picture, or baking cupcakes for someone, talk to your child about what activity to express thankfulness would make them feel good.

When we practice gratitude, we improve our own well-being and mental health, develop a more optimistic outlook, reduce stress, and build stronger relationships. If you have any questions or concerns about your child’s emotions, stress, or mental wellness, please call our office and talk to our pediatrician. 

Caffeine & Energy Drinks: What Every Parent Should Know

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While a cup of coffee or tea can be healthy for most adults, it’s important to consider the effects of caffeine on your children’s development and growth. Caffeine affects kids differently than it does adults, and there are health risks that should be taken into consideration. Knowing how much caffeine is safe, what to watch out for, and how energy drinks factor in will help you guide your child toward healthier choices.

Caffeine is a stimulant found naturally in coffee beans, tea leaves, cacao, and in some plants like guarana. It’s also added to many beverages and energy drinks. In children and teens, their bodies and brains are still developing, which means caffeine can have stronger effects. It can increase heart rate, raise blood pressure, trigger rapid breathing, cause nausea, restlessness, or anxiety, and interfere with sleep. Even hours after consuming caffeine, children may feel its effects, and when it wears off, they might experience headaches, irritability, or tiredness.

Caffeine can also reduce appetite or lead to eating less nutritious foods. When children drink caffeinated beverages, they may be less likely to consume fruits, vegetables, and other important sources of vitamins and minerals, which are essential for healthy growth. Disrupted sleep, poor concentration, or mood changes often follow, and these can affect school performance, emotional well-being, and overall health.

It’s not just coffee and tea that have caffeine. Energy drinks also have caffeine and tend to have higher amounts, along with other stimulants, such as guarana, taurine, or taurine-like ingredients. In fact, most energy drinks contain more than 100mg of caffeine, which is more than the limit recommended for kids ages 12-18. Energy drinks often contain large amounts of added sugar as well, which can lead to weight gain, tooth decay, and spikes in energy followed by crashes. Frequent consumption of energy drinks has been linked to symptoms such as nervousness, shaking hands, stomach problems, headaches, irregular heart rhythms, and sleep disturbances. Kids with underlying health conditions, like heart issues or anxiety, may be at even greater risk.

Many sodas also contain caffeine, although they have less than coffee, tea, and energy drinks. For example, Pepsi Zero has 38mg of caffeine, Diet Coke has 46mg, and Mountain Dew has 54mg. Caffeine can also be found in some foods, like chocolate. A 3.5-ounce dark chocolate bar could have anywhere from 50 to 150 mg of caffeine. Ice cream, protein bars, chocolate chips, energy bars, and chewing gum can also have hidden caffeine.

For children under the age of 12, it is recommended to limit caffeine as much as possible or avoid it altogether. For kids ages 12-18, staying at or under 100mg of caffeine per day is recommended. Pay close attention to labels on beverages your children drink, as caffeine can show up in unexpected places. It’s also important to be aware of caffeine pouches that can be appealing to teens. The caffeine in them is quickly absorbed into the bloodstream, producing effects within minutes. These pouches can contain as much as 200mg of caffeine, leading to potentially dangerous doses for kids.

To help kids avoid caffeine, encourage them to drink water instead. Water is the best choice of drink for kids and the best way to stay hydrated. Some kids turn to caffeinated beverages like coffee to stay awake or concentrate in school. To discourage relying on caffeine, make sure your child is getting enough sleep. Caffeine may improve energy levels and alertness, but it is not a substitute for lost sleep.

If your child does overdose on caffeine, it’s important to get them medical help right away. Signs of caffeine overdose include a racing or irregular heartbeat, body shakes and tremors, anxiety, and hyperactivity. If you’re ever concerned about your child’s caffeine use or how it’s affecting their health, please call our office.